Skip to main content

Before you date somebody

Before you date somebody, ask yourself: 


1. Am I free to be who I am?
 If you have to reinvent yourself to keep somebody happy, you’re in the wrong relationship. If they disapprove of you now, do you seriously think marriage will improve things? Not a chance!


 2) Is the relationship based on honesty?
The Bible talks about ‘telling each other the truth’. Relationships thrive on openness and trust. When deceit creeps in, it’s time to get truthful in a hurry or call it quits.

Now the Ultimate One.



3) Is this person possessive or controlling?
 If so, it’s a red flag. The Bible says, ‘Love is … never jealous’ (1 Corinthians 13:4 CEV). If you can’t make a move without the other person’s permission, you need to back off and re-evaluate the relationship.

4) How are we spending our time together?
Without a plan, it’s easy to get more physically involved than you should. That’s why it’s good to agree up front about establishing boundaries.
Keep God in your relationship and you won’t go wrong.

 ‘Let God speak to you in everything you do … he’s the one who will keep you on track.’
All the Best.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

10 Important Cybersecurity Practices for your Business

  10 Important Cybersecurity Practices for your Business 1. EDUCATION  It’s much easier to prevent a hack than it is to recover from a hack. Once your company’s sensitive data is stolen through a ransomware attack, recovering it is often a long and arduous process. Teaching employees about basic security, personal cybersecurity, and the prevalence of cyber threats goes a long way in stopping ransomware attacks before they can really do damage. Your employees should understand that they might be targets of malicious actors, eager to exploit any entry they can find in your company. The average cost of a cyberattack is 3.86 million and the cumulative total for global cybercrime is expected to cost $6 trillion. If you don’t pay to train your employees about cybersecurity best practices eventually you may end up paying more in the long run. High quality and free trainings for your employees are available from several government resources including Department of Homeland S...
Post a Comment
Read more
Top 20 Most Asked Third Party Risk Questions for Vendors  These questions help organizations assess the overall risk posed by third-party vendors, covering critical areas like data protection, regulatory compliance, and incident response. Here’s a list of the Top 20 Most Asked Third-Party Risk Management (TPRM) Questions for Vendors in TPRM questionnaires: 1. What types of sensitive data do you handle for our organization? Vendors should clarify the types of data they collect, process, or store, such as personal information, financial data, or intellectual property. 2. How do you protect data at rest and in transit? This question probes into the encryption methods, protocols, and security controls in place for safeguarding data during storage and transmission. 3. Do you have a formal Information Security Program in place? Vendors should describe their overall cybersecurity framework, including policies, procedures, and governance. 4. How do you manage user access to our data and s...
Post a Comment
Read more

Nearly 500,000 workers are needed in cybersecurity roles around the country

The push to work from home during the coronavirus pandemic is straining cybersecurity professionals around the country tasked with ensuring workers are able to not only work efficiently from remote locations — but to do so safely. This rapid shift is a tall order for an industry that was already in need of skilled professionals long before the pandemic took hold.  Cybersecurity workers were taken off some or all of their typical security duties to assist with other IT-related tasks, including equipping mobile workforces, according to an April survey from global nonprofit (ISC)2, the largest association of certified cybersecurity professionals. The survey of 256 cyber pros found nearly half were re-tasked and that a quarter said cybersecurity incidents increased since the transition to remote work, with some seeing as many as double the number of incidents. Separate data from another nonprofit cybersecurity group, the Information Systems Security Association, found a 63% increase in...
Post a Comment
Read more